- When
- we
- look
- at
- a
- certain
- object,
- a
- painting
- for
- example
- –
- we
- won’t
- be
- able
- to
- appreciate
- what’s
- in
- it,
- what
- is
- painted
- and
- what
- else
- goes
- with
- it
- if
- the
- painting
- is
- just
- an
- inch
- away
- from
- our
- face.
- But
- if
- we
- try
- to
- take
- it
- a
- little
- further,
- we’ll
- have
- a
- clearer
- vision
- of
- the
- whole
- art
- work.
- We
- reach
- a
- point
- in
- our
- life
- when
- we
- are
- ready
- for
- change
- and
- a
- whole
- bunch
- of
- information
- that
- will
- help
- us
- unlock
- our
- self
- improvement
- power.
- Until
- then,
- something
- can
- be
- staring
- us
- right
- under
- our
- nose
- but
- we
- don’t
- see
- it.
- The
- only
- time
- we
- think
- of
- unlocking
- our
- self
- improvement
- power
- is
- when
- everything
- got
- worst.
- Take
- the
- frog
- principle
- for
- example
- –
- Try
- placing
- Frog
- A
- in
- a
- pot
- of
- boiling
- water.
- What
- happens?
- He
- twerps!
- He
- jumps
- off!
- Why?
- Because
- he
- is
- not
- able
- to
- tolerate
- sudden
- change
- in
- his
- environment
- –
- the
- water’s
- temperature.
- Then
- try
- Frog
- B:
- place
- him
- in
- a
- luke
- warm
- water,
- then
- turn
- the
- gas
- stove
- on.
- Wait
- til
- the
- water
- reaches
- a
- certain
- boiling
- point.
- Frog
- B
- then
- thinks
- “Ooh
- it’s
- a
- bit
- warm
- in
- here”.
- People
- are
- like
- Frog
- B
- in
- general.
- Today,
- Anna
- thinks
- Carl
- hates
- her.
- Tomorrow,
- Patrick
- walks
- up
- to
- her
- and
- told
- her
- he
- hates
- her.
- Anna
- stays
- the
- same
- and
- doesn’t
- mind
- her
- what
- her
- friends
- says.
- The
- next
- day,
- she
- learned
- that
- Kim
- and
- John
- also
- abhors
- her.
- Anna
- doesn’t
- realize
- at
- once
- the
- importance
- and
- the
- need
- for
- self
- improvement
- until
- the
- entire
- community
- hates
- her.
- We
- learn
- our
- lessons
- when
- we
- experience
- pain.
- We
- finally
- see
- the
- warning
- signs
- and
- signals
- when
- things
- get
- rough
- and
- tough.
- When
- do
- we
- realize
- that
- we
- need
- to
- change
- diets?
- When
- none
- of
- our
- jeans
- and
- shirts
- would
- fit
- us.
- When
- do
- we
- stop
- eating
- candies
- and
- chocolates?
- When
- all
- of
- our
- teeth
- has
- fallen
- off.
- When
- do
- we
- realize
- that
- we
- need
- to
- stop
- smoking?
- When
- our
- lungs
- have
- gone
- bad.
- When
- do
- we
- pray
- and
- ask
- for
- help?
- When
- we
- realize
- that
- we’re
- gonna
- die
- tomorrow.
- The
- only
- time
- most
- of
- us
- ever
- learn
- about
- unlocking
- our
- self
- improvement
- power
- is
- when
- the
- whole
- world
- is
- crashing
- and
- falling
- apart.
- We
- think
- and
- feel
- this
- way
- because
- it
- is
- not
- easy
- to
- change.
- But
- change
- becomes
- more
- painful
- when
- we
- ignore
- it.
- Change
- will
- happen,
- like
- it
- or
- hate
- it.
- At
- one
- point
- or
- another,
- we
- are
- all
- going
- to
- experience
- different
- turning
- points
- in
- our
- life
- and
- we
- are
- all
- going
- to
- eventually
- unlock
- our
- self
- improvement
- power
- not
- because
- the
- world
- says
- so,
- not
- because
- our
- friends
- are
- nagging
- us,
- but
- because
- we
- realized
- its
- for
- our
- own
- good.
- Happy
- people
- don’t
- just
- accept
- change,
- they
- embrace
- it.
- Now,
- you
- don’t
- have
- to
- feel
- a
- tremendous
- heat
- before
- realizing
- the
- need
- for
- self
- improvement.
- Unlocking
- your
- self
- improvement
- power
- means
- unlocking
- yourself
- up
- in
- the
- cage
- of
- thought
- that
- “its
- just
- the
- way
- I
- am”.
- It
- is
- such
- a
- poor
- excuse
- for
- people
- who
- fear
- and
- resist
- change.
- Most
- of
- us
- program
- our
- minds
- like
- computers.
- I
- realize
- this
- is
- a
- tangent,
- but
- before
- I
- go
- any
- further
- I
- don’t
- want
- to
- forget
- to
- mention
- that
- the
- idea
- for
- this
- article
- was
- actually
- given
- to
- me
- by
- these
- guys.
- Looks
- like
- they
- have
- a
- delightful
- Sudbury
- based
- medi
- spa
- with
- heart
- https://capcbco.ca/biosculpture-sudbury-marvelous-attitude-bobby-adams.
- All
- right,
- I’ll
- get
- back
- to
- it!
- Jen
- repeatedly
- tells
- everyone
- that
- she
- doesn’t
- have
- the
- guts
- to
- be
- around
- groups
- of
- people.
- She
- heard
- her
- mom,
- her
- dad,
- her
- sister,
- her
- teacher
- tell
- the
- same
- things
- about
- her
- to
- other
- people.
- Over
- the
- years,
- that
- is
- what
- Jen
- believes.
- She
- believes
- its
- her
- story.
- And
- what
- happens?
- Every
- time
- a
- great
- crowd
- would
- troop
- over
- their
- house,
- in
- school,
- and
- in
- the
- community
- she
- tends
- to
- step
- back,
- shy
- away
- and
- lock
- herself
- up
- in
- a
- room.
- Jen
- didn’t
- only
- believed
- in
- her
- story,
- she
- lived
- it.
- Jen
- has
- to
- realize
- that
- she
- is
- not
- what
- she
- is
- in
- her
- story.
- Instead
- of
- having
- her
- story
- post
- around
- her
- face
- for
- everyone
- to
- remember,
- she
- has
- to
- have
- the
- spirit
- and
- show
- people
- “I
- am
- an
- important
- person
- and
- I
- should
- be
- treated
- accordingly!”
- Self
- improvement
- may
- not
- be
- everybody’s
- favorite
- word,
- but
- if
- we
- look
- at
- things
- in
- a
- different
- point
- of
- view,
- we
- might
- have
- greater
- chances
- of
- enjoying
- the
- whole
- process
- instead
- of
- counting
- the
- days
- until
- we
- are
- fully
- improved.
- Three
- sessions
- in
- a
- week
- at
- the
- gym
- would
- result
- to
- a
- healthier
- life,
- reading
- books
- instead
- of
- looking
- at
- porns
- will
- shape
- up
- a
- more
- profound
- knowledge,
- going
- out
- with
- friends
- and
- peers
- will
- help
- you
- take
- a
- step
- back
- from
- work
- and
- unwind.
- And
- just
- when
- you
- are
- enjoying
- the
- whole
- process
- of
- unlocking
- your
- self
- improvement
- power,
- you’ll
- realize
- that
- you’re
- beginning
- to
- take
- things
- light
- and
- become
- happy.
.
